A quick Message I have never gotten across.

“Sticks and stones will brake my bones but words will never hurt me” whatever happened to that? One thing that still and will always bother me is why we care so much about what other people say about us? Well let me tell you it’s because we’re addicted to others peoples opinions and we seek for approval from everyone. It makes me sick to see people change and get hurt because of what someone said about them. Firstly what a person who you don’t like has actually bothered to say about you it should be the least of your worries because for god sake you don’t like this person they mean nothing to you and most probably they’re jealous or so angry and they have nothing to say to defend themselves so they chose to put you down.
Secondly the only opinions you should care about is your friends and family the ones you have come to trust and love, these are the only people whos opinions you should take seriously.
Then again some people get really upset about what people say to them and it makes them lose confidence, well I would say it just learn to accept yofor who you are and what you look like and the things people say won’t matter anymore. This is easy to do just take a good look at yourself in the mirror and say this aloud “I am me. I love myself; accept myself and those who judge my exterior will find it harder to know my interior”

One thing I want to point out is that the more you react to a person comment that more it shows how weak and how you can be broken you have to show them you don’t care and see past all the rude comments.

Another thing could be advertising, you walk past a billboard and its like they’re saying “if you don’t buy this everyones gunna hate you” then you buy it and everyone calls you a show off or an attension seeker so either way you don’t win unless you take the route to ignoring advertising but I have to confess even I crave to have everything new however I buy things for my own pleasure just to have it and a little voice in my head says to me “your so cool with your new … “

Well what I’m really trying to tell you is that in 20 year it won’t matter what stuff you had; the clothes you wore and; the things people said about you because most probably you will not even remember these people in the future. So take my advice and prove that to be confident you don’t need other peoples comments.

Also always remember don’t strive to become popular at school but strive to succeed.

Stay styling ;).